Don't dwell on the negative!  You are stronger and much tougher than you think you are!  There is an inner strength in all of us that we call on from time to time, mostly when we feel that we are done with things as they are and we want them to change.  We change when we are forced out of the comfortable and familiar.  You may be experiencing "tough times" in this ever surprising and jolting season of life which we all seem to be finding ourselves in just now.  This is a great opportunity for you because you are discovering strength and creativity and fortitude and ability!  You can rise above these circumstances and you will.  Reflect on the positive and be grateful.  Focus on what you want and go after it.  Set high goals, write them down!  Look forward to a great future and believe in yourself!  Put a smile on your face and a song in your heart!